Ok so who think like me? I need answers so I don’t think I’m crazy…
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Thank you for expressing your feelings so openly. I completely empathize with you.🤍
@Kristine I tried asking him to understand and change with me for the better but it seems like he’s very selfish. Like yesterday he noticed that my vibe was different and asked me if I was ok then I explained to him that if could walk this road with me and he just said he worked to much that he just wants to wind down after working 12 hours all week which I’m ok with it but he has promised me that wasn’t gonna drink anymore so fast forward to last night he went out to see a soccer game with his dad and came back DRUNK, he was slurring I could tell he was drunk and I was mad because I literally told him how it makes me feel seeing him like that and he totally ignored that and he was so drunk that he tried to gaslight me telling me he was just chilling sleeping when I was the one who disturbed him when I WAS THE ONE SLEEPING IN THE OTHER ROOM when he came in and left the door open and the Tv was loud so I got up to tell him to sleep in the living room because I don’t want be with him
@Kaitlin thank you girl, I’m happy someone actually replied to this…💜
Totally understandable. And I think it’s reasonable to ask your bf to stay in with you occasionally, but trying to control him will make you both miserable. I’d focus on finding pregnant or mom friends - people who are in the trenches with you. And in the meantime, you can think of all the things you’ll experience this pregnancy that your bf won’t like baby’s first kicks. Hang in there. No one is truly sane during this time but there can be fun in the madness.