Me & my husband have considered getting a girlfriend. What is this called and if anyone has any experience with this I’d love to hear about it!!

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No advice but you might be interested in the story of William Marsten, his wife Elizabeth, and their girlfriend Olive. William Marsten was the creator of Wonder Woman, and he was basically inspired by the two women in his life that he loved. The girls stayed together even after his death, it's a very beautiful story. 💜

@Melissa thank you!!

Research unicorn hunting. Join polyamorous groups. This is probably the worst and most difficult way to go about it because you're essentially expecting one person to want to be with both of you, remember it might not work out that way. I'd advise you to think of all the negatives, what if he falls for someone and they don't like you? What if 2 years down the line she breaks up with your husband, does that mean you also have to break up? (Not okay or healthy). Remember you're not dating as one unit, you're dating as two individual people and there's multiple relationships going on at once between 3 people, it's not just you and your husband having a girlfriend. There's loads more but honestly if you want to do it and you want it to work, it's gonna take a lot of research.

I would suggest looking for a “unicorn” to try it out and definitely join the poly/ unicorn groups on Facebook!