Don’t know what to do
I’m really stuck at the moment I’m getting no sleep which I know is a part of having a baby. But it makes me so angry feeling like I’m doing everything all the time and my BD doesn’t help me I cook clean and make sure the house is tidy in the day, for him to come make it a complete mess from work no help at all. It then gets to the nighttime and I know he has work but he gets annoyed if I don’t settle our LO quick enough or always says he’s hungry or groans at me do to something. Recently I’ve been waking up every 30mins with like LO and feel like I’m going crazy and he doesn’t seem to get it and feels the need to say he didn’t wake up much. It’s making me go crazy and feels like he doesn’t understand how shit it is to run on no sleep everyday whilst doing everything for everyone. I’m at breaking point
Hey, how are you doing? So sorry I didn’t see this before. That is really shit to be honest. Is there any way that he could understand or empathise even a tiny bit of what you’re going through? You deserve better, I’m so sorry. Is there anyone else that can help you with anything at all any family or neighbours even? Your partner should be the one supporting you, but some are not mature enough or hold the emotional/physical capability of doing so sadly 😿