Am I just extra sensitive or am I over reacting?
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No, I had a miscarriage in June and I couldn’t go to work and serve kids, I distanced myself on socials cuz all I saw was people having reveals, announcements etc, I even distanced myself from some friends for a little bit cuz they were pregnant at the same time and i was hurting. I apologized later on because I felt like a terrible friend but I needed time to grieve and I didn’t want to be a downer for their pregnancy. We got pregnant not long after as well and we told people a lot sooner just because it was so hard for me to deal with it alone and no one knew I was struggling and I wanted that support if it happened again, but everyone processes differently and your feelings are valid! Praying for a safe pregnancy for you as well
I'm feeling like I should call her now. She has said she had a miscarriage several years ago but the problem I have with it is she never told anyone and brings it up a lot to people that don't really know her much(she told my now husband after meeting him like twice when we were dating). She has said before when I said something about having the first grandchild "no I did". Now here is the part I'm tempted to call her on. When I left the building my husband went back in to get what we left in there and he heard her make them comment I'm having the first grandson! It is hard because we were technically in the safe zone at almost 14weeks when we found out. I know I shouldn't but I don't think it's right for her to use her miscarriage to try and one up me and then act like mine wasn't the same. She never even went to the doctor with hers so it could have been a chemical or just a late period as she was on the shot at the time.
@Gaylin👶👼 I understand but everyone processes differently and she’s free to share or not share and whether she saw a doc or not she was expecting a pregnancy that she lost and I’m sure she deals with the what’s ifs on her own, so I wouldn’t think that way and invalidate her, as for the comments of “no I did” and then not validating yours then yeah that’s kinda messed up and something you could share with her but she’s not going to see an issue if you don’t speak with her
My biggest thing that bothers me is she manly brings it up when she is not the center of attention
The comment is the main problem I have. Because we are so frush from our lose
No, you are not being dramatic at all. What you went through is so difficult and heartbreaking and you did your best trying to support your sister. But it's a sensitive area for you and being in that environment is triggering. I hope you have a healthy pregnancy and baby!