Baby daddies not in the picture
So my baby daddies aren’t really in the picture for the kids they don’t pay child support or anything but I’ve let them see the kids whenever they want to my family hates them both and wants me to take the kids away and not let there dads see them but both are not on birth certificate or really check up on the kids what should I do
Show your support
And for this case it’s for medical insurence they need to pay child support but I don’t want to do court and if I want to move out of state as well
Make them take accountability for their actions, if they want access they gotta be a dad. Obviously it’s your choice, but you don’t deserve to be left alone
And if they do child support then they want 50/50 and both don’t know how to take care of babies and out of state that’s no option for 50/50
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In this case it’s all up to you. Them not being on the birth certificate makes you the only guardian. You gotta do what you think is best for your babies. Ultimately I’d think about it like this. Would you prefer for them to come and go out of your kids life as they please. Which can be emotionally damaging. Or would you prefer to make an impact by surrounding them with a strong village.