Late apologies

When I was 36 week pregnant I found out in the worst way that my bd was cheating. getting a call from my doctor that I tested positive for an std. it literally broke me but i decided that was the end of us. Now almost 5 months later he wants to apologize. It’s so frustrating I wish I could turn off all emotions but is been almost 7 years we been together regardless I just can’t go back.
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good job for choosing you 🤍 it’s definitely not easy

I could never go back. But I would never judge if someone did, some men are shit and pull on your emotions x

You’re not wrong for feeling torn. Seven years is a long time, but so is the rest of your life—and he already showed you what he does with trust. An apology doesn’t erase the betrayal or the fact that he put your health at risk while you were carrying his child. Closure is great, but so is peace. You don’t owe him anything just because he finally feels guilty. Protect your peace like he didn’t protect you

@Susie or not even feels guilty just wants the family life style back and she's familiar and easy to be with... its worked for 7 years... could 7 more... he's been having his cake and eating without her knowing, the only difference is now he could be more sloppy with cheating... because she'd take him back again.. also sti's can kill babies and he was sloppy with cheating to give her one... a baby born to a mum with clam can be born and become blind due to it going in its eyes... he's a tramp . im so proud of her for choosing her ♡

@Susie the rest of your life hits the nail on the head and shows the bigger picture... he's already stolen 7 years of her life... but he could steal the rest more... risking hers and any future babies life. Who wants to live on the edge. The anxiety when he's late home, when he goes to the shop, goes to see friends or family etc...its fucked up and stops you being the best mum because your minds else where the whole time their out. I didn't know my ex was cheating but sometimes he'd disappear and go party .. not knowing if he was coming home from work on Friday or would disappear during the week so he could go on Friday and guilt trip me saying he didn't come back because I argued with him and I took him out our family etc. Plus in 7 months your deep in healing and for him to come back that's a waste of 7 months if he does go again because the healing process will reset yet it will be worse as there will be images of him with the baby imprinted in her brain.

@Bea♡ yes that’s what hurts the most that me and my baby are at risk because of your selfish decisions. I don’t believe that he will change and I just want to move on and be happy

It doesn't matter if he apologises now. He wasn't sorry when he cheated. He wasn't thinking how it'd impacted you or your baby. @Bea♡ is right. Your baby could have been blind or sick. He's not sorry. He just wants to have control over you. My bd did the same, and I'd like to erase him. You did the best thing for you and for your baby. You got this ♡

that’s unforgivable in my book.

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