Why is my ex upset that I am pregnant w/someone else even though he left me to be with his current girlfriend?
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We share a child together. I see nothing wrong with our child wanting both of his parents and me trying to have a good coparenting relationship with him. We also live in two different states so in this case it would be a “trip”. I don’t get to delete his number, and i have clearly moved on.
Ahh sorry, I was scrolling early hours after feeding baby and clearly misread haha I didn't realise that he was your child's father. He's a really shitty person then, it has nothing do to with him and shouldn't concern him or affect the relationship with his child. If he doesn't see his kid then it's probably an excuse
He's a hypocrite that's why. Like you said HE was the one to leave so he has no right to be upset that you moved on when he's been with the one he left you to be with and has continued to be with for the last 2 years. He was probably convincing himself that you and your partner weren't serious and that deep down you still wanted him back but now you're pregnant that's blown up that little fantasy of his. Sounds to me like his ego is hurt or he's jealous even though he has no right to be and if he's going to throw his toys out of the pram so to speak then let him. As long as his decisions doesn't have a negative impact on your son and if he tried to make anything of those trips just make him aware that it was him that wanted those trips with both of you with your child in the first place. Just be mindful that he doesn't try to make your child jealous of the new baby by perhaps making him think that you will love this new baby more or some shit like that.
Girl fuck him 😂 I’m going through the same thing except I don’t have any kids with these other men. Like I kid you not, since YESTERDAY night, I had 2 guys I used to deal with pop back up and I told them I was pregnant, they wanted to act like they chest caved in and they was hurt like their homeboy died. I literally laugh because bitch you stop messing with ME!!!! Baby, this pimping don’t stop 😂🫶🏽 I be having to bring them back to reality. They thought they was bigger than the program, now your feelings hurt. WOMP WOMPPP. He’ll be ight sista.
He thought he could get you back. Till now
Because in his mind, he’s a man, it was perfectly ok for him to move on. But you? As the mother of his child? He fully expected you to live alone for the rest of your life and forever be a back-up option for him to go back to should his current relationship end. Or even if he just wanted some extra sex on the side just because he felt like it, he knew you would always be there in the background ready and waiting for him to just say yes, like a lot of sad baby mothers do, and he’d slot right back in. The fact that you moved on and are now pregnant with another man’s child is too much for him. Your pregnant belly is the physical reminder that not only did you have sex with someone else, you let them hit it raw lol and his dreams have come crashing down. Hypocrites rarely make sense so if he wants to be a Butthurt Barry over it, let him. But remind him that if his current gf gets pg too, they will also be a sibling to your child and you all need to get on for your child’s sake.
Who cares is what he thinks, but more to the point, why are you even setting up dates to do something with him and your kid when he moved onto another woman? I think it's time you delete his number and move on yourself