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How old is baby. The first three months we nearly broke up . Baby is 10 months now and so much better . Hang in there mama

@Justina baby is nearly 3 months. Honestly I just feel like he doesn’t see we are breaking and I fear it will get worse from my end as time goes, I mean I’m beginning to not feel him

I know the feeling of feeling lost and I’m going through it right now and I wanna bring up my problems to my fiance but I can’t cause he won’t understand what I’m going through

Yup 👍🏻 it’s the lack of sleep and stress that does it. Myself and hubby are always biting at each other. However, if you’re both strong (which I’m sure you are) it’ll soon be forgotten about. Hang in there, it’ll pass x

Ours was very bad too. Unless he’s abusing you I suggest you guys work it out . It gets better mama

@Lucy exactly

Don’t forget your self care. Sure I’m exhausted in the first 3m but going to do a facial or a massage or my nails makes me feel 1000% better. I usually leave baby at home at those times and he gets a couple hrs bonding w the baby while I tend to myself. 3-4m is also when I started seeing friends again, night dates w both friends and my hubby separately, we needed to connect in amongst all the baby moments

@Cassie same here. The understanding is key but I guess they just doesn’t.

@Justina no, he’s very sweet and loving, never abused me. Through it all, he still makes and bring me meals when he is home and takes the baby so I can get some rest but it’s just we aren’t the way we use to be around each other. He woke me up to talk it out this morning though

@Kellie absolutely, I started doing that from 3rd week in as I was feeling insecure about my body 😔. I still feel a bit insecure about my body but he gives me reassurances but I don’t tend to wanting to hear it prob due to the constant arguments and anger from me. This was never us 😔😔