The happy song by Imogen Heap works for us
@Kelley what age did she stop?
Honestly at about a year old! She’s 18 months now and it’s such a huge difference. I think once we were able to explain to her where we were going and now she enjoys looking out the window and is excited about visiting different places. I feel you pain, it was just awful. Can you have a friend or partner ride in the backseat with her? That also seemed to help some
My little one did this and I found she hated the car that was ‘low down’ i.e. It had high windows. If I put her in the other car which had bigger windows she was much better. And yes I religiously played ‘the happy song’ on repeat on every car journey too.
I was in the same situation! It’s awful. I was having panic attacks and didn’t want to leave the house anymore. We were only going out for holidays and special events. I know it’s terrible but we had to get an iPad holder that hooked around the headrest and played a show while we had to drive anywhere. It helped so much. I will say she finally grew out of it and will be happy just riding with toys and music now. Phew. Hang in there 💕