No friends

I hear ya girl

Hey Bee, I know the feeling 😌 I’ve sent you a message anyways. Have a great week!

Totally get it! And this app is supposed to be about making friends🙄

Here here 🙌 Kelly

I get you and it’s tiring for real

@Kelly exactly. It is supposed to be about making friends but I guess it’s really not

@Pamela it’s very tiring honestly. Makes one feel alone on some days 😔. I randomly just drive around town with my little one 😆 without a direct place to go, I mean just to keep my sanity.

@Bee I find this therapeutic 😆

Yes. I love how they say it's so hard or they say they will talk to someone and then they stop. Well that's kinda what happened to me. I don't get it. Idk why this is so hard to make friends on this app. Ive deleted it and idk why I came back this site is a damn joke. This shouldn't be this hard to make friends. And I get it everyone is busy with kids and what not, I do I get it, but are you that busy where you can't pop in and say hi or see how their day is? Cause I find it hard to believe that they arent on their phones. Everyone is glued to theirs. Idk it's just frustrating. But whatever

@Nikki I agree with you. I honestly don’t like if I’m the only one putting in efforts and the other isn’t, makes it seem like one is forcing the friendship or it’s probably not wanted.

@Bee EXACTLY!!!!! I felt that way with the other person I was talking to, until I just stopped. Like I'm looking like a creep by messaging you all the time asking how you doing etc. I feel like a creep so I just stopped. If you can't find time to message someone then why are you on here?? If it doesn't fit in their criteria on what they are looking for then forget it. I've noticed that. It also makes people feel like they've done something wrong or said something wrong. That shouldn't be. Shouldn't have to feel like walking on egg shells. Again this shouldn't be so damn hard.

@Nikki yes it shouldn’t. With me, it feels like some gives a one off response so the chats gets to a dead end and they barely contribute. I mean it gives the vibe of “I’m not into this or trying to make it work”

@Bee you are 100% right about that!!! Then again why are you on this site then if that's what your gonna do..like I get it people get busy but still come on not everyone is busy 24/7

Exactly. And we all claim oh we are finding it hard to make friends, this and that

@Bee yep that's the excuse they use.

I've had people talk to me, follow me on insta for a time and seems it's going well just to remove me randomly mid convo, I've messaged first many times just to be completely blanked too. Takes the wind out your wings a little because all you want is that interaction/ connection just to feel human. I feel you. It's not everyone but there are a lot of people who just don't consider feelings or don't know what they want. I hope you know it's no reflection on who you are & anyone would be lucky to have your company. It's what I keep having to tell my pregnant scared self anyway 😂🫠xx

@Nikki it happened to me and honestly it made me give up on wanting to make friends for a while. Damn. I reacted and got talking with someone who posted about wanting friends and whatnot only for me to start getting one reply text. Like for real, it’s really not a deal if you don’t want to be friends with someone but you shouldn’t reply them. 😆 It made me feel like I was desperate for a friend and made me step back from trying.

@Charlie oh my, i completely don’t like this. And yes, they are inconsiderate it makes others feel they’ve done something wrong or desperate.