New born play time?

I have a 5 week old little girl and find myself with overwhelming guilt that I haven’t done enough to stimulate her. The HV visitor says that we should be doing tummy time, singing to her, etc. and I do… but atm she sleeps majority of the time still and the window of opportunity to these things are limited. Often she will fall asleep straight after her feed or will be wide awake during the middle of the night (which obviously means I am in no fit state to do anything with her lol). But there are some days where I haven’t been able to do anything with her. Am I over thinking this? I know she is still a baby and sleep is more important, but I can’t help feeling like I am not doing enough for her…
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Totally fine😭 at 5 weeks idk why people expect much. Soon she will want entertainment at her own pace. All I did with my LO was tummy time for the most part. Wasn’t until 8 plus weeks that he started looking more awake and aware lol.

I’ve wondered the same! Most of the time her wake windows are taken up with feeding / nappy changes etc. I just make the most of when she has a longer wake window in the day by doing tummy time or just laying her on a mat and getting sensory stuff out. But I don’t manage to do it every day that’s for sure!

I feel exactly the same, mine is 6 weeks old and my HV said not to worry too much about this at the moment as all they will want to do is sleep and eat 🙈

My oldest sons were born at 25 weeks and one of the nicu nurses said I was delaying their development as I wasn’t reading books to them (I sobbed every time I tried) and another nurse told me, babies don’t understand words yet so it doesn’t matter if you’re talking absolute rubbish to them! Tummy time can be done when on your chest! My little boy is 10 weeks and for the past few weeks I’ve started doing sensory time, tummy time on the floor and singing to him because he’s more alert and longer wake windows. Don’t stress it, you’re doing an amazing job! X

I have been thinking the same. My son is four weeks old and between feeds and nappy changes, there never seems to be enough time. Then I feel guilty about not trying suggested activities.

It depends on the baby! Some days we do tummy time, black and white cards, play mat etc. he’s been very grouchy a few days and has screamed when we have put him down. So we just cuddle instead. Don’t feel guilty x

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