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Definitely have a chat if you can about boundaries and where/when is an inappropriate time or place to be doing that, it seems like just a very casual thing for him if hes doing it whenever and wherever but lying to you about it is not good. Lasting 5 minutes during sex is mostly normal, but then not making you finish either before or after is selfish of him, you have sex to please eachother not to be a glorified sex doll. I'd just have an open honest and judgement free conversation and hear eachother out about how you both feel, your sex life will feel so much better. Plus the trust that comes with it will boost everything
@Beth I've said to him that If I'm not in he can do it but clean up after your self probably not using my bankets and stuff but when I do talk to him about it he gets embarrassed I don't no if its an age thing I'm 25 and his 21
@Beth I don't shame him for it we all do it but at least I do when his not around
Ah yeah, it could be that it was a taboo subject for him growing up that he doesn't feel comfortable and gets embarrassed. But yeahhh, definitely not using your blankets eek!!!! You're not really asking for much of him so he should respect your boundaries
I'm confused on what the issue is? Are you upset that he's playing with himself because you're against it or are you just upset he isn't getting you off? Masturbation is normal and he's probably just trying to do it in a place where the baby isn't at If it's about him not getting you off, definitely talk to him about it and give him tips on how to make you finish Make sure when you bring it up to him, you do it in a kind way so he doesn't feel embarrassed or insecure
If he was abused as a child he could be doing it. Most men do and hide it from their significant other. When you do have sex some men just don’t last long in general