I’ve NEVER orgasmed from a man..

Ladies, I am so embarrassed to admit this. So…. No man has EVER made “O”. I’ve had alllll size D’s from huge to small, but I just cannot get there. Don’t get me wrong, it feels amazing while doing the deed, but I have never “finished” Everyone that I sleep/slept with has been very attractive to me, so thats not an issue. I was married for 15yrs, who never ever got me there either. Our marriage was more so for security on my end. That being said, I believe I might have been using toys so much that nothing else can get me off. I hate that, bc I hear so many women share that “they finish” with their partner. Ugh!!! Am I alone in this?

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Use a toy during sex. Or your hands to get yourself there during. Get on top and grind against the pubic bone to get off. Be vocal about what you want him to do. Many ways to get there it’s not about size and more about having a man who’s determined to get you off

I’ve never had an orgasm. Ever. I bought toys to try and did nothing for me lol

I need to come back to this post, I have a lot to say lol

@Christina🤱🏼🍂☕️♈️ do you try & concentrate?

Idk what that even means

@Christina🤱🏼🍂☕️♈️ Lol. If ur using a toy, you have to concentrate on the idea of getting off, to porn, a position, an attractive person, etc. That’s what I meant.

Emotional intimacy and feeling safe and a partner that can pay attention to your body signals

Oh. Yea no. That’s too much work and effort I don’t have time for

@Elizabeth I’ve had that! I’ve had some of the most gentle, caring men in bed before. Who pleasured me both with oral & penetration BEFORE they even started on themselves. It included foreplay, caressing, before starting to pleasure me. I just can’t seem to get there. So frustrating!!

I was in the same boat too. Didn’t have my first O until I was past 25. I found riding on top is my only way I get off.

I’ve only have ever when my current partner has preformed oral 😬

I’m just throwing it out there as a late in life lesbian who was “attracted” to men most my life… that a lot of late in life lesbians don’t orgasm until they are with women.

@Lyss interesting

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