Do you feel guilty when you ask your partner for help?

My partner said it’s easier him going to work than looking after a newborn - so don’t feel guilty! You need the help mamma xx

Absolutely I feel awful, I slept on the sofa the other night from 4am as our baby was so unsettled so I didn’t wake him before work. I try my best to do it all, but sometimes I need help xx

I don't feel guilty. When I was working full time it was way easier than staying at home and managing the kids. He also knows work is easy compared to managing our kids lol but I do my best to manage as much as I can and he can see that

My partners got 2 months off for paternity but I'm recovering from a c section which i had on 27th February and I feel guilty every day. Will so even more so when he returns mid may

No lol I'd rather do his job than be dealing with the kids 24/7

Absoulutely not! He helped create the children he can help raise them. My partner tells everyone he would never switch places with me because he knows how much hard work it is. I never ask him to do night feeds because I know he struggled staying awake but on his days off he always gets up with all 4 of our boys from 6:30 onwards so I can get a lay in. The way my partner explains it is why should a mum be expected to parent and a dad asked to parent when they both created the child