Same boat here! No advice sorry. I do usually try give him a soft book or a toy or something
@Lee same here, mobile phone to the rescue
Phone or food 😂😂 just pure bribery! My boy is awful and I have no shame on bribing him haha
For wees we do pull ups and essentially I just distract him with a book and do it really quickly. For poos we have to do them lying down and… sorry… we do screen time! It’s the only time my LO gets my phone and he has it for 2/3 min to get us through the nappy change!