Just lost my mom while pregnant with my second, my heart is beyond broken.

On Tuesday I lost my mom suddenly and unexpectedly, she is the only family my husband and I have right now. She takes care of our 16 month old and they are the best of buddies, I’m due with my second in July and now I have this crushing feeling like I won’t be able to raise 2 kiddos with any support system outside of my husband. I want to pick up my phone and call my mom to ask for advice/help so badly… I guess I’m not asking anything but I just need to express my feeling somewhere. Any advice to help with this crushing grief?
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Just waking up and seeing this, tears flowing.. can imagine what you’re going through. Life is so precious and unpredictable it’s incredible how frail it can all be. You’re so strong to have reached out to the community here, I am here for you in any way I can be sending so much love and light your way and I know your new angel in heaven is too.

I'm so sorry. I was 9 months pregnant when my mum died. I was up and down to the hospital to see her. I cried so much that i had to have an emergency c-section. Looking after my first came with its challenges. My mum was supposed to assist us in taking care of her. My husband stepped up as we realized that we didn't have anyone else. It will be difficult for a while, i won't lie to you. But it gets easier. I have 2 kids now... myself and my husband have tried our best... and that's all you can do. Things will get easier. Mum is looking down on you... she's so proud of you. always remember that... x

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