Does your husband comments your clothes?

My husband started recently to comment my clothes. He loves sport/casual clothes, and I love more elegant, actually office “look”. Recently he started to tell me how my style is old fashioned or just :”looks like curtain, or please change this it doesn’t look attractive.” It really hurts my feelings. And I told him. We are not intimate that much after baby, and I feel more sexual than him. I work out, my body didn’t change that much after pregnancy, but I don’t know why is he not attracted to me anymore.
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a guy i was interested in once said "I don't really like when girls wear a lot of makeup." i responded "good thing i don't wear it for you" and proceeding to put on my favorite red pressed glitter shadow.

@Sarah, yes, I also respond him that I wear what I like and how I feel. Since he is my partner it really concerns me, why he changed so much. He was always respectful to my choices.

I'm sorry to hear that...if he was really attracted to you he wouldn't care he would just be wondering how to get whatever you are wearing off of you! The fact it's recent behavior and your style hasn't changed is also strange...have you tried calling him out on that to see why all the sudden? Maybe you could spice up and wear something sexy for him to see if he changes his tune, but I wouldn't do it all the time, you should be allowed to be your own person. I could wear pajamas everyday and my man will still be trying to sleep with me lol. I do let him surprise me with clothes sometimes what he thinks I would look good in...even recently he got me something I would never buy for myself and I told him I liked it and wore it anyway and I actually got a couple complements on it when we were out! I think it's all about compromise and also the way you go about it.

My sense of fashion sucks, i kno that. So wen my partner comments on my old lady choice, I listen and ask for his opinion before making a purchase.

@Nandini Same. I have old fashioned moments since my teenage days. Lol

My husband will tell me things he doesn't like if It comes up i.e. he doesn't like high waisted jeans. Etc but he would never look at what I'm wearing and comment negatively on it. Unless it was like I was gonna go out and had holes and stains etc he'd be like we're not slobs go change lol but yeah I'm a weirdo and I wear what I want and he doesn't say anything unless it's oooh I like that outfit

@Brittanie as it should be 👏

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