do guys actually wanna be friends with women?
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Nah men's goal is to fuck. It's not a hidden agenda.
I have lots of male friends. We hang out.
that makes sense, its more natural that way @Sarah
lmao i am sure thats the case for a lot of men but i hope not all @Terra
mostly from work or from before marriage or a mix? @SquishyMommy1
A mix
I have a good amount of male friends that I hang out with regularly.
I have guy friends and I doubt any of them want to fuck me. If they do, they’ve never mentioned it.
Unless they were gay, they have all expressed interest.
from years of friendship or new ones? @MK
hahahaha that’s smart of them 😂 @Victoria~
and you stayed friends with them even if they expressed interest? even if you’re married? @Selena
A mix of both.
Depends on the relationship I had with that guy in high school. If we were close friends and just fell apart, that could go either way. If we never hung out, then he's probably got a hidden agenda. I don't personally see anything wrong with being friends with someone you're sexually attracted to, though. Just don't act on it or put yourself in vulnerable situations if that is not okay.
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Guy friends are mutual friends to my husband and I. We don’t hang out solo.
It’s called plotting
I think it depends on the person and how close you guys were
I have guy friends. We are platonic and it’s totally genuine and non-sexual, they are not my type of men to date but they are fun to talk to and joke around with, they give me man/relationship advice sometimes, my guy friends are what you’d call the “class clown” lol down to earth charismatic funny type guys, that’s the type I tend to attract as friends. My type to date are def not class clown type dudes. I meet my guy friends at hobby.
I've got male friends and we couldn't be less interested in each other sexually. I'd say he's just being nice and wanting to catch up with someone he has a shared experience (high school) with. If you went along and he tried to hit on you then that's different but based on what you've said I wouldn't assume that. Isn't it a bit arrogant to assume everyone wants to sleep with you? 😅
i would agree with this but my partner wouldn’t lol @Courtney
i love that, my bestie guy type is also goofy! & meeting them at hobby is prob the safest way to meet them @Kellie
LOL no its not arrogant when every time i’ve tried to give a guy the benefit of the doubt & say hey lets try being friends he always has to ruin it so im wondering where the heck there are dudes who are LITERALLY JUST LOOKING TO BE FRIENDS @Caroline
I think if you're in an environment (like school or work) where you're around each other a lot, yes a friendship can develop. I do suspect ulterior motives when the attempt comes out of the blue though