How to deal with the bully

Try to speak to her privately about her behaviour, write down the instances she has bullied you and make a complaint to your manager and HR if it continues. I'm sorry you arr going through this, I had to deal with a bully a few years ago it's not easy but after I called her out about her shit in private she did back off after that. Good luck, message me if you need to chat ❤️

Call her out, call her a bully, tell her there is something wrong about her and bullying you won't heal it she should seek help. When she offered you the spray you should have given it back and say I checked it is so cheap and nauseating, I would rather stink.

Don’t go to her, just go straight to manager and if they don’t do anything HR. Don’t ever do it yourself in a work place she may turn it around on you and get you fired! X

I personally would tell her to fuck off. If she carries on then get her in her own and make it clear that you will not put up with her shit. The only thing that a bully understands is intimidation. You need to intimidate her or she will never stop. The longer you leave it, the harder it will be to stop it

I will try and speak to her privately if she carries on bullying me , I’ll report her straight away ?Thank you so much ladies , I appreciate you taking the time to help me out and being very supportive xx

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Like the others have said you need to speak to her on her own and be very direct that she needs to stop this now. What a horrible old bag she is! She’s obviously jealous of you. I know it will be nerve wracking but practice what you’re going to say to her and don’t let her downplay it. If she tries to interrupt you or play it down just say very clearly that it must stop now x

@Chelsea I will do I’m on with her on Saturday , I need to write down what I’m going to say lol and practice it from now , thank you very much .

Use ChatGPT to help you frame it assertively. Xx

I would make your manager aware your going to attempt to have a chat with them. Get it documented. Then if she raises anything you've already flagged it and your plan to address it.

I will email my Manager , also I thought of buying a shewing gum and giving it her to her land telling her your breath stinks and then turn and say I was just joking , I don’t know if this is a good or a bad idea xx