Just a observation don’t jump me for saying how it is

As a woman who’s been with women my whole life and had sex with 1 man whom is now my husband, and has always identified myself strictly as demisexual I’m not straight nor bisexual and wouldn’t consider myself bi since I’ve been dating women since I was in middle school. I feel like majority of you in here do NOT actually like women outside of sexualizing them or just seeking attention from them because your husband or the father of your child broke your heart now you’re trying to switch to women, first of all as a actual woman who “ dated “ women. women also cheat and play games no relationship is perfect it doesn’t matter what gender you date both genders cheat regardless, I’ve been cheated on before numerous times by the women I dated but guess what? I still loved and dated women and kept it moving that didn’t make me hop back to men just because a woman cheated this is very stupid to sit there and claim you’re lesbian just because a man cheated on you now you go dating women as if women don’t cheat as well. this is literally not okay playing with real “ lesbians “ feelings that actually love and care about women just because a male broke your heart is stupid and it makes me very angry seeing women in here say stuff like this, I have nothing against women coming out as lesbian after years of dating men but don’t sit in here and claim you’re something your not just because your husband or boyfriend stopped showing you attention you come playing with actual lesbian women’s feelings for the sake of a male breaking your heart, I understand as women we become very insecure and just want love but it is not okay NOT okay at all to play on women’s emotions like that especially if you know deep down inside you only see women as sex not actually capable of loving them emotionally it’s not okay, in my past before my partner I was a victim of emotional abuse by straight women before I actually “ love “ women forreal and I can’t stand straight women coming up emotionally abusing a actual lesbian’s heart it’s not okay it is emotional abuse. you are no actual lesbian if you are only trying to mess with women just because a man broke your heart. you are still straight and are just using women for attention and not to mention half of you aren’t even attracted to women physically or emotionally you just using them for attention until you get more from another male then ditch them, It’s literally emotional abuse it’s not okay to play on someone’s feelings and It’s very disgusting to do. I see so many women in here that says they love women only because their partner did something to them, meanwhile I never see women in here actually point out why they in fact love women it’s always bc of what a man did to them.