Would this piss you off?

My partner has been off work for 5 days now, those 5 days i have been up from 3am throwing up. Not only does every part of my 5 months pregnant body hurt but its got to that point where i cant eat because i constantly feel sick again. During those 5 days off my partner hasnt got up with me or checked on me once, he usually wakes up about 3-5 hours after me (if i was to get any sleep) and spends the WHOLE day complaining that hes tired, im not allowed to be annoyed at him for not waking up etc because 'in jealous' hes getting more sleep. I also have a 3 yr old. So usually im annoyed he doesnt wake up so i wont talk to him after hes woken up until ive calmed down abit, this pisses him off so much but less then if i was to moan that same broken record of why im annoyed n how nothing changes. Well today he goes as far as to say i understand you've had a rough couple of days but its not my fault. Would that comment annoy you, knowing theyve slept for 5 full nights while youve consistently had 4 hours sleep, and you've been on n off the toilet throwing up while they're playing darts or watching football
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Honestly before he woke up this morning i was thinking about ways we could work this out n as hes not willing to wake up earlier and he always wants me to stay up late during the nights so we get to spend some time together, the only thing i can see helping is sleeping separately. That way i can just go sleep as soon as i get my boy to bed, sleep well (he usually rolls on my side or takes all the quilt) and i dont have to see him in the mornings

Who the fuck is saying no to this 🤣 stop lying girls. Incognito I dunno what to say to you, I don't think you're angry enough to be honest. I would have poured cold water on him the second day he pulled that shit

I don’t know if that comment is the worst thing in the world cause technically it isn’t his fault…. BUT I would hope he would be making sure you could get to bed early knowing you were having it rough, sorting out your 3 year old so you can nap during the day if needed and just generally supporting you and seeing if there is anything you need! A conversation definitely needs to be have cause he’s not doing enough that’s for sure

@Amber exactly I’ll be fuming

Let’s normalize leaving boys because real men don’t act like this

Is he a teenager?

@Amber 🤣🤣 im glad its not just pregnancy hormones

@Claudia we spoke about it more during the day and i told him again its just annoying i dont see him in the mornings and how he always expects me to change how i react (not talking to him) but he hasnt once got up early or tried seeing me/having breakfast with me and his reply was you dont give me a reason, so i havnt spoken to him since and moved my pillow into another room because that just upset me, ultimately in the year we've lived together ive never given him a reason to get up and see me

@Minna hes 25 so im going to say no but who knows in 'boy' years🤣

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