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@Bela I think there’s a difference between being fake positive and being mean for example A lady put a post up with a positive test up and another lady put its colourless it is ment to have colour Now I found it mean when she could have put its early yet keep testing to see if it gets a colour even tho you could see slight pink init . It’s the same people over and over I see writing harsh words yet every cycle there also asking if it’s positive ect
Yes, no one should be mean. I don't think writing "it's colorless, it's meant to have color" it's mean. It's direct, it's her opinion. She could've worded it differently, in maybe a kinder softer way, I can agree with that. What I mean with toxic and fake positivity is, for example, when you wrote "... because they ha e not got their positives yet, but u all will in time trust god" That is not true. Not everyone will get a positive test. Not everyone will get pregnant and have a baby! I don't think that's a necessary or helpful thing to say to someone who is struggling to conceive.
@Bela I can see your point in what I said but I still stand on saying being a dampener on someone eles joy won’t brighten yours
After my losses, I didn't necessarily want positivity. Which so often is toxic and fake positivity. I wanted what's real and honest. My fertility doctor ga e me the best advice during my IVF journey: "Stay neutral." I always remember her words of wisdom. Of course, this is my preference, and what worked for me. With that said I don't know what posts and woman ypu are referring to.