Great sex - but a question about climaxing

My partner and I have an amazing sex life. Like out of this world. I'm completely satisfied with the variety and frequency (all the time, we can't keep our hands off each other). One thing that I've noticed is that no matter what we do and whenever he cums (before me or after), I always get myself off. He's far from a selfish lover, to be clear, he loves holding me and watching me while I bring myself to orgasm and actually enjoys me doing it. And my orgasms are really intense this way. I'm just curious if this is a normal / common thing?
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I mean I don't do it that way but everyone has different sex lives. There's not really a "normal" or one size fits all type thing. If you're both happy then I'm sure it's great

My husband gets me to climax majority of the time, it's only if he goes before me ..than I'd have to help myself. But it's not weird, I know a lot of women that can only climax with themselves.

i wouldn’t say it’s normal or weird.. everyone is different! i can’t say that’s how it goes in my relationship but if it works for you and you’re happy with it that’s all that matters

I'm the same way

I don’t know if it’s “normal” normal is subjective some women have never orgasmed in their life, but that sounds like our sex life. He’s patient while I orgasm and then he resumes the speed and tempo

Same here

The rarest form of a man are the ones who know exactly what to do to make a woman properly cum it's sad but true the world wide .Some guys that are well endowed untalented and feel like that's all they need to do is stick/push it in there&they've done their job. Some guys have creativity&know how to eat pussy well&some don't but try anyway. Some men who aren't that well endowed but are romantic&can simulate you mentally.Whereas some men act dumb &clueless or unhelpful or lazy. I find men who don't bother to make sure that their partner is satisfied w/ what is going on sexually or otherwise is one sided & selfish. I don't think I could deal w/a man who doesn't know how to get me to that point like I can get him to that point of no return. For me making myself cum after sex would get old fast thb. But we're all different.. We all have different lifestyles, triggers,tolerance levels and red/green flags. I say if you Like it, I love it for you!! And if it ain't broke don't fix it!!! 💯

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