Pop on down to Ann Summers and treat yourself to some toys 😆
Have you talked to him about being with a woman? He may have an interest in watching that maybe? Or a threesome?
I would say that if you’re actually thinking about cheating on him just leave before you do. But honestly, I wouldn’t leave a whole marriage just because the sex gets boring.
communicate how you feel with him
share your fantasies and desires with him and encourage him to speak to you about his. sometimes life gets in the way and you need to relight the fire 🔥
The truth shall set you freeeeeeee
Have you talked to him? Tried to take control in the bedroom? You may be surprised and he might like it
Have you told him that you’re bored? Or is there a reason you haven’t told him that you’re bored? And specifically used the word “bored”. If my partner was feeling like this and not communicating it to me, I would be really really upset.
@Stacey 🇵🇸 agreed. If you really want to cheat on your partner, just leave. Cheating makes you a massive piece of shit
Everyone has different priorities. If your sex life ranks high, I would find ways to make it work with my busband before leaving. How was sex before you got married? My guess is you knew he was like this. Did you ever find it fulfilling? Or is it recently that he is... vanilla?
What about talking to him about going to a strip club? It could spice things up for him too.
Those options aren’t great you’ve given so I didn’t vote. But I would tell him how you feel and then see what he says- if he’s not willing to spice it up then you’ll have to see. Sex should be enjoyable for both people . As far as being with a woman goes ? Maybe suggest a threesome x
Talk to him?