If a woman refers to herself as wife , but she is not married, and vice versa…

Is it because she's manifesting it or something?

@Melanie Nobody knows.

Lmaao that's funny. Well I think cringe but I guess it depends on the context

Depends on state. I know back home in Arizona it doesn’t exist and here in Texas it does. They have the same rules that Islam has.. you say you married three times and that means you are married. If you have certain amount of years in the same home.. you married.. etc…she might be legally married as stated. It’s called common law marriage

I knew a lady who was obsessed with a man and she called herself his wife and she even legally changed her name to his so she be called Ms. King. If it's like that it's weird but if it's like " Im going to be a wife" that's fine.

So I did it too but it's kind of a preference, whenever I'm talking to a man, I use husband, coz when I say boyfriend no one takes me seriously specially since we are an interracial couple, I literally had a guy from my community tell me that he would love to take me out one day when I go back to my hometown after he commented on my story of me and my bf (at that time, now husband) asking who it was. So after that I saw a pattern and started referring to him as my husband to my peer men or male colleagues, even started wearing a ring to show im.married kr taken. But when I'm in presence of any woman I use fiancée/ bf/ partner.

@Tiffany lmfao that’s definitely dalulu 😭😭😂😂😂

Depends on how long they have been together / if it's like wifey or just straight up I am HIS wife. I feel like theirs a slight difference

@H Right, and it stayed that way until she died in her 60s and he had married someone else too. She didn't care, she was his wife in her mind.