This can be very normal, I felt very disconnected a few months after having my baby, almost told him I wanted a divorce!! I didn’t of course, and now we are very happy again. Postpartum can be really wild!
@Jade why doesn’t anyone talk about how scary pp can be 😔 not knowing how to navigate your emotions z
Totally agree. More needs to be talked about it. I was so scared of how I was feeling, and I’m scared to have another because of it.
The best advice I got was that the first year is all about surviving. Don’t bring up divorce or separation bc most of the time (except certain situations of abuse and other serious matters etc) it’s a huge change in your lives and will require a period of adjustment. No one is perfect and you are both learning to be parents🫶🏻
Absolutly hun. Its PP related as theres soo much going on you disconnect with your partner and your hormones of course dont help. What id say is give it time, as the baby gets older and you'se have more time to yourselfs, you'll see if the sparks still there. Having a baby brings out if they are the right person for you. So give it time hun, focus on the LO, take time for yourself and then in time you realise its just not the same anymore then fair enough xxx