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Ok so I’m in my third trimester and me and the baby father have always had sex since the very beginning with no complications. But now and even before I got pregnant I wouldn’t really be satisfied. He don’t make me cum, he don’t be lasting , he don’t make me wet, he don’t eat me out and it be so frustrating bc I don’t remember the last time I had a orgasm. He nuts all the time and says he puts in more work than me bc he’s always sucking my boobs fingering me but I just don’t feel nothing. Idk if it’s bc of all the stuff he’s done to me cheating disrespect etc I’m just not turned on or bc I don’t be satisfied whenever we do stuff. And he don’t want me watching porn but he be watching other girls play with themselves.. but supposedly he stopped. SO a few weeks back he told me he was thinking of getting a pussssyy sex toy which I was like wtf u need that for? We fuck whenever u want. And he got me a vibrator which was his idea but I don’t even have time to use it bc he cums so fast so it’s a waste. When I had a dildo l in the very beginning of us being together he made me throw it out. Talking bout he need something more or for when I’m not in the mood. So we got into a argument bc I was tryna tell him how I want my needs met and he took it as I’m tryna criticize him and his pipe game and told me he already got a sex toy. I was upset bc I’m like why tf u lying to me about this shit? Especially after our talk and you told me you weren’t going to get it. Then you told me oh that been came the next day then you saying you barely use it then it’s you had it for 2 months.. it’s the principle the fact you lied about it, knowing how I felt and made it seem like u understood then do that and BEEN had it. So he ends up going to the bathroom and he’s there for a while I walk in bc I have to pee and can’t hold my bladder. This man is jerking off im like gtfoh like not in my bathroom. Like I find it disgusting talking about he was watching a video we made like sure bc I completely trust you… then he tryna calm me down saying he was just horny and shit and I’m like okay bet imma get my needs met however don’t be upset and he was like what are you talking about what are u gonna do tryna be all up on me and I’m like nah go do what u was doing but don’t be mad when the tables turn and I’m finding ways to pleasure myself bc at this point I don’t want anything to do with someone who’s fucking something else let anyone doing god knows what.

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Ohh yeah no doubt about it...it's a lack of trust and that at least for a woman affects us emotionally which therefore affects you deeply. The fact that he never made you cum sounds like you allowed him to treat you this way you made it so that as long as he cums he's fine with you not being satisfied because you been okay with it for so long lackluster sex is horrible and the sad part of this situation is that he has no desire to change.. otherwise you'd told him sooner and he would have improved the way he treats you sexually and/or otherwise. Now that you know what you Don't want. What Do you want him to do? Don't tell us ! TELL HIM And expect change and make consequences. But tbh I don't see this really happening though because you seem like you're having a difficult time finding your voice. Once you work on that then you can go express your needs better to him.. because so far looks like hes not concerned about your complete satisfaction and that's mostly falls on you. Speak up

@Claudette ❤️ but the thing is I have. I told him what I wanted or how we can do things a little different.. yk like letting me start off so I can at least be close to a orgasm but he just thinks of it like I’m saying his sex game wack and how I supposedly been with a lot of guys so after a while I’m just numb bc every other girl he’s been with came etc.. and how I don’t do anything but just lay there and how he does all the work and I’m like I already know what to expect.. he don’t give me head so I don’t either. So I’m like at this point I really don’t want sex or anything from you bc you already lied to me and been doing w.e it is

@Claudette ❤️ and yeah ur right I haven’t said anything for so long I kind of brushed it off but my needs do matter too.. maybe it’s a mixture of pregnancy hormones and not getting over stuff and feeling like I’m always being disrespected which just turns me off. It’s like when someone does something to u so much you’re just not the same

Geesh girl how did you tolerate this for so long telling someone time and time again what you want but still allowed him to feel good.. he wouldn't be on top of me with zero skills to offer other than his cock. For a man to touch me he must be extremely into making me feel good if he isn't there no way I could endure it. Don't subject your life to lame sex or someone who is not mature enough to realize the truth that his sex game sucks. He needs to up his game before he meets someone like me who will laugh in his face next time he wants sex. STOP LETTING HIM USE your Body TO PLEASURE HIMSELF... If you keep allowing it he's only going to keep doing it repeatedly impregnating you to hold you back and keep you there. Without a care in the world on his part on how this makes you feel

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