Husband different response to s*xy things
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@Lis that was just this time, he said when I was using my hand it hurt
Ohhh that happened to me and he just wasn’t feeling connected to me bc he thought I wasn’t into him! I think y’all need to connect on a deeper level sexually, like touch first and kissing etc. being naked together first! And if it was barely nothing maybe he had already finished early on his own? Or he has a low amount/count hormone issue (is that a thing??) but I wouldn’t necessarily say bored, I think if he was hard there’s still a connection clearly, but I would try to connect deeper first!
I'm not sure why it's hurting, but maybe switch it up a little? You said it's been 5.5 years, and you haven't changed anything you do during the BJ. If you're open to that conversation, maybe ask him about it. Possibly just need to add a bit more spice to the gumbo, so to speak 😉
More saliva maybe try whip cream to spice it up a bit ….69
Thanks ladies 🥰🥰 yall are amazing
Definitely try some different things, and it keeps it's fun for both of you. My husband likes to be able to touch me when I do that or just watch. I've tried the fruit roll-up trick before, was sticky and messy, but a good time, lol
I don't know how open he has to open communication but have you tried asking him in a sincere tone what he would enjoy? Us women expect our guys to ask us what we want and what makes us feel good so I think it's important to do the same for them.
Not everybody likes blowjobs and preferences can change! Also have you tried using lube so it’s not dry? Tell him to let you know what to change up in the moment!
Watch out for your teeth too lol but just talk to him and ask him how tall can connect better
Go to an adult shop-explain you’re open to all things and his pleasures and fantasies . See where that goes-smile and be excited 😊
Why is it hurting first off?