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joy*. TAKE HEED to this & IT HURTS for sure but trust. it’s hard to trust but it gets easier with practice i promise. you are her family & your parents & she as well as you when your parents aren’t always supportive, HAVE a father in heaven❤️ FEEL what you’re feeling & stay honest with yourself. use the rest of this time to reallllyyy start the healing process & PRAY for your ex fiance for him to focus on himself & his growth & start his healing to but don’t focus on him FOCUS ON YOU. speaking from experience. no delay/ hinderance 🙌🏾 YOU’RE NOT ALONE AT ALL. feeling lonely & being alone are different
Oh man I’m sorry, you absolutely got this and you will need moms to support you 100000% I moved back in 5mo postpartum and within a month I met my fiance and I’m now having my second! Things 100% change and you will get through this shitty time. I promise. But in time, take care youre healing from trauma and your baby will need you more than ever and 100000% get outside pp even to sit, it helps I promise. Get those free resources also asap! Call your insurance and ask what they have and WIC/Snap! There’s so many mom groups on fb! I created a hiking one pp at my parents to get out and have purpose and got grants for school (got in2 a university!)and started adhd meds and was killing it! Until my meds stopped working (caused panic attacks SMH!) but I’m happy and a sahm now but just know there’s happiness around the corner and I believe in you! And your brave for leaving or whatever happened but you’re still brave and you’re doing whats best for ur bby which is exactly what it’s all about
Also I highly recommend having a conversation with your parents about your expectations, and then have them both tell you theirs. It’ll clear alot of things right away, and you may be hormonal pp and need help I hope your parents will not break under the stress like my dad did, he was so rude sometimes, but thats my fam dynamic. Anyways! Good luck💗 message me on here if you ever need!
hey i’m 22 reach out to me if you want but i will say one congratulations you confessed/ spoke these things out loud & that’s where it starts, acknowledgement & admitting because denial & pride keeps us STUCK. also congratulations on God removing things so he can replace them with better / what he truly intended for you. don’t think of these things as a loss. FEEL what you’re feeling but just believe that everything happens for a reason & seek those reasons not in your emotions nor own understanding. God turns all things for our good of those who believe. it matters what you’re believing. believe for the future & for your baby & most importantly for yourself. people need & love you don’t focus on who act like/ show that they don’t. focus on who do & what serves your peace & joh & KEEP IT. don’t let the enemy steal that, kill/ destroy your life, it’s YOUR life. God wants these last 3 months for you to FOCUS on you & your baby. don’t learn the hard way. warning comes before destruction