@Sara sorry to hear you’re experiencing the same! Do you find sometimes when he’s going to sleep he will startle multiple times before actually going to sleep successfully?
My 12 week old is still startling and she’s had her arms out since 4 weeks 😅
Exactly that- at least 6 startles then just crashes!
My boy is 14 weeks and his reflex is still so strong so had to order a transition sleep suit from love to dream to ease him into two arms out; he’s also rolling so have to act fast 🫣 He’s been swaddled since birth so really not liking the change - plus he’s definitely in the regression with short naps, trouble sleeping etc so it’s all going on for him 😂