Parenting

I don’t know about you but I wake up and just start woopin. No warnings. 💪🏻 🤜🏻 ✨

Is this a joke? Please tell me it's a joke

I really hope this is a joke No child should ever be abused

@Kate so you think that a child get a whooping is child abuse?

@Bethany what do you mean is this a joke

Actual gentle parenting does work, but there’s a fine line between gentle and permissive parenting. Personally we don’t believe in spankings. My stepdaughter gets spanked at her mothers house and she hits/kicks/yells at us when she’s upset so it seems that what her mother is teaching her by spanking her, is that it’s okay to put our hands on other people to get the desired outcome from them. After a day or 2 at our house, where we try our best to practice gentle parenting (it’s not always easy!), she does re-adjust and becomes a much nicer and calmer child

@Tierra I see your point

@Incognito it's fucking child abuse! Are you insane

Multiple studies have shown that spanking actually affects a child's brain in multiple ways that mimic the brain of a child who is abused. Children who grow up with corporal punishment are much more likely to develop anxiety, depression, mental health and behavioral problems as they grow because their brain reacts to it like abuse. Personally, I would not lay a hand on my child. The evidence shows it's damaging. I would suggest looking into the research.

Yes I whole heartedly do think that

Violence breeds violence, I’m Honestly astonished you think this is remotely ok

@Bethany no the fuck it’s not child abuse. It’s call discipline. It only becomes child abuse if over do it and really abuse the child by leaving bruises and marks. Honey I’m not insane. Matter fact excuse yourself off my post.

@MK okay I understand your view point

@Kate I feel it is okay to discipline your child when needed. But as the parent you should no not to over do it to make it abuse.

wait is this actually a for real post?? I thought you were trolling! Do you actually beat your kid?

What is considered over do it? Thats an awful comment, it is child abuse shame on you

That’s a sickening comment

So everyone on this post honesty never popped, spanked, or whooped their child???? that is very unbelievable

It's actually not unbelievable at all. The research proves its damaging, and most parents raise their children pretty intentionally. The campaign against corporal punishment started in the 80s/early 90s, it's not new knowledge that it's harmful.

Never and I never would do

So you telling me if parents whoop their children they are abusing them. Wow this crazy.

I said that the research proves that children's brains process it the same way and it can have detrimental effects. You can read the research yourself.

Yes 100% . It’s crazy how you don’t think that

how often in your day to day life to you get ‘whooped’ if you don’t comply with what another deems ‘acceptable’ behaviour?! i’d like to think the answer to that is never. i’d also like to think that if this were to happen from another adult that there would be serious repercussions of that, so what makes it any different? other than the fact that the person you’re considering ‘whooping’ is your literal baby, that you’ve carried, birthed and nurtured up to now? someone that sees you as safe space, to teach them right from wrong, not kick their ass and scare them into complying- when you don’t like their behaviour?? it’s abuse my friend.

@Incognito I hope this has opened you're eyes to how sick it is to be at you're child. I hope you get some help. I feel so sorry for you're poor babies. Actually makes me feel physically sick.

@Bethany I already told you to excuse yourself off my post. You better be the fucking world’s best damn mom. Get the fuck on with that. Mines are well and great tf

@Chloe I have gotten popped/Spanked as a child. I do not feel that it was abuse. I love my kids dearly and I don’t kick their ass fyi chloe.. but if needed they do get popped and they are not scared of me nor do I ever put any fear in my children. I am always their save space and they still come to me for any and everything. It’s NEVER NO ABUSE OVER HERE! My kids loves me like no other

@MK thank you for posting these! I’d like to send them to my stepdaughter’s mother….

Each and everyone on this post acts like they never got spanked/popped/ whooped by their parents when they did something wrong or what they wasn’t supposed to do. Miss me with the lies and bullshit

It's a free country as you say in America. I'm nowhere near perfect but I don't beat my fucking kids. Good luck to you, please sort yourself out✌️

@Bethany good luck to your silly ass too tf

Just because that is your lived experience doesn't make it true for everyone. My parents never laid a hand on me. I can count on one hand the number of times they even raised their voice.

You act like this is so surprising to you but you posted incognito lol