Mentally divorced

Has anyone gone through a mental divorce in the sense where they are not actually divorcing their husband legally but have mentally? I feel this is me right now… he brings absolutely nothing to the table apart from money and I am a sahm with a 1yr old and feel that’s the only reason to stay as I am financially dependent on him. Can anyone give any advice if your going through it and some tips on how to master this because I feel so detached but at the same time have weak whims

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Hey love, I understand how you feel completely. Baby you need to get your independence back. Find you a work from home job. Put your baby in school. Stack your money and do what you gotta do for you. Please don’t fall into depression. I been there love

It’s not easy to walk that walk. But I can tell you as a person that went thru it. You gotta find a solution that works for you. Even try having a conversation with him about your feels

@Deejah I was really thinking this but I barely feel like I get the time because my baby takes up so much of it and I’m ok with that but it gets so hard without any support.. my family are over an hour drive and I don’t really have anyone here to help or support me.. my hubby gives me an allowance for the month but like I said he brings nothing to the table apart from money and I’m so over it.. we don’t have that spark anymore and I been suspecting him of cheating.. I wana leave so bad but then think of my baby and finances

Baby have you sat down and had an honest heart to heart conversation? If not do so and express all of your concerns and issues. Love you need to get your independence back asap!! It’s not a good for your mental health and your baby feels everything that you are going thru no matter the age. It’s call second hand trauma.

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