annoying asf🙄

baby daddy definitely hasn't been the best person. he says he's trying and wants to be there for the baby. i'm 37 weeks and some change and in the last 3 months alone i have spent $1,567 on getting stuff for the baby. just in the last 3 months. guess how much he's given me for the whole pregnancy??? $85. in total. i was able to get a humidifier and pay for half a 3 pack of bottles with that, payed the other half with my money. he was making excuses for not giving me money so i said fine and we were no contact for awhile. he called me off some random number talking bout how he's gonna do better. and i said "so if you keep fucking up, will you walk away without a fight? will you do what's best for my son and just leave so he's not dealing with your inconsistency?" and he said yea. i texted him i unblocked him and we only gotta talk about the baby. i told him if he wants to be in his life im not gonna be a push over about money. asking for $50 a week is not a lot. (he pays 0 bills, lives rent free, has no car, gets free food) i pay rent, car payment, insurance, gas, food, and everything for baby. so $200 a month ain't shit. i told him he didn't have to pay until the baby was born. he said he can send the money for this month and i said "you do whatever but you don't have to give me money until he's born" and he said that he'll do anything and blah blah blah and then didn't send any money😂 like okay bud. that's already red flag number 1. i said you don't have to and i meant that but you offered and then talked your game up and then didn't do it and so just making a mental note that literally the first night he's talking about " i'm gonna be there and help" he already basically said " oh i don't have to so i won't"