@Tarie well that’s obvious.
@Tarie but also concerning and sad
Yea that is so odd lol
I’m heteronormative and into monogamy, so this doesn’t sound like my crowd…but I don’t think either of ya’ll are weird, just different from each other. Have you ever asked them how they can remain close after being sexually intimate? As long as it is said out of curiosity and not judgment, I’m sure they would share their thoughts.
I understand how this is not for everyone, but for you to say things like "grossed out" or "yuck" or "wierd" or "horrific" just tells me that you may not be very open minded. Women can enjoy sex with other women and people can have sexual relationships with their friends. They are/were living their best life, just having fun, not holding back, and doing what feels good in the moment, and then have the emotional maturity to do those things and still have friendship/relationship. My husband has a friend who is a girl that he hangs out with and fucks because she is a good person to talk to and fun to have sex with. When I met her for the first time, her and I got along so well on a friendship level, and then all three of us ended up all on eachother fucking all different ways and doing all kinds of things to eachother. It was so fun. I can still look at both of them in the eye no problem. 🤣
No that's weird. You're normal.
Maybe the things you thought were horrific weren’t for them.