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Isn’t it crazy that we are all here to find like minded moms to be friend, yet can’t seem to get many to message back or continue to message?! Do I give off some strange first impression? Maybe ChatGPT should roast my profile 😂 Anyways, hi girls! I live in central VA with my husband, 8 month old son, and 3 dogs & 3 cats. We’re in a small town and basically our friend are our church family and we are really close to my husbands family. My mom recently moved 30 minutes away which is very nice! I moved from Northern Va 4 years ago after meeting my husband on Bumble in 2019. We got married in 2022! I work remote for an emergency veterinary and previously worked with animals since out of high school. I left a best friend behind when I moved and since becoming a mom she has just kind of faded away. I would love to find some kind of friend circle of support to add to my days. Feel free to message me ☺️
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I think it’s more that we are trying to find friends in our areas. I know that’s what I am looking for. Plus I tend to look for moms without cats since I’m allergic.

Yes I agree. I think the idea of friends sounds nice but it’s hard to put in the initial effort plus it feels a little odd (almost like dating all over again lol) - what if we don’t vibe, what if the kids don’t get along etc. I think some group settings might be a better solution, less pressure/awkwardness. Happy friend hunting, I don’t live nearby but you don’t give off strange vibes lol

@Olivia the developers of this app also need to make the search settings in the wave section more accurate. I have it set to 1 mile from where I am and it still gives me people over 20 miles away.

Yes! I had joined Peanut a few years ago and either got no messages for nothing beyond exchanging pleasantries 🥴 I can be awkward at time so maybe that’s it, otherwise, I feel ya! I’m in PA otherwise I’d say let’s meet up!

I think I have some weird repellent on because I could never make "girl friends " 🤣 I think it would be cool to have like a sister bond ride or die and maybe my boldness and kindness get misunderstood. I don't get it I'd be giddy as all heck if someone wanted to be my friend so that's what I give out. Maybe that's wrong? I also just can't with the small talk or abbreviations. I can't help that I want to actually have meaning full ..to silly to ridiculous conversations but can't do that if I get nothing to work with or our lifestyle and views..just don't vibe. 😭

Ack, girl if you were closer to me I'd so be your friend.

Sara, I'll message you.

I've sent a few messages and had nothing back too! Like someone else said I think people are looking for local connections, mine are coming up miles away!

I was just thinking this.

@Jenna what part of Pa?

I've been asking everyone if they like pineapple on pizza as an ice breaker... and then go from there 😅 but some of the best conversations are with people ages away

Aw I used to volunteer at a vet clinic! Also have a lot of friends from church. Hope you’re having a good weekend! 😁

I see how judgmental all the moms are with the way they comment on things and frankly I know I’m not their cup of tea.

I have come to the conclusion they have lots of fake AI profiles on here. I think that’s how they were able to make the appearance of “growing” so quickly. All the social media platforms do it !

@Bethany hmmm interesting!!

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