Sex with my ex

I split up with my ex in December last year for good reason. We’re still in communication and getting on well due to me being pregnant with his child (due in August). He was the last person I slept with and I’m really missing some intimacy in my life. I’m no good at one night stands or casual sex, so I’m considering going there with my ex but for sex only. Am I crazy for considering this?
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He's an ex for a reason, it'll just make things messy

Get a toy 😂

I miss eating good tasty fatty food but I don't do it because I'll be fat 🤣🤣

@Shayleinnn unfortunately toys don't provide the intimacy and actual physical touch some of us crave.. like the feeling of a real person etc.

Sex always complicates things, especially if he is an ex and you're having his child so emotions/hormones will be all over the place right now.. Do you still have feelings etc as could messy if you do. It's easy to say "just sex" but for some women, sex is never just sex.. I'm the same I can't do the one nights/casual etc. Someone familiar is always easier, but for me sex comes with feelings. I do get what you mean about intimacy etc it's nice sometimes to have a cuddle, and actually be touched/desired by someone. X

Get a prenatal massage

I mean if the reason u both broke up isn’t that deep deep go for it. When me and my husband broke up in 2022 that’s before we got married. We were off for few months but still having sex cos I can’t just imagine having sex with someone else. He is my first. And I wasn’t even expecting anything like working out. But fortunately we got back together and got married and we now have an additional one year Old. Talking about one night stand, I wouldn’t do it cos u re pregnant. It’s dangerous

@Andrea it was just a suggestion I’d rather do that than go back to an ex ..

@Shayleinnn right!!!

When I was pregnant and wasn’t with the father I refused to have sex with anyone who was NOT the dad. I just felt like it was an invasion of the baby’s home (my vagina lol) so I only slept with Bd. But I was able to keep it at just sex. So literally fucked. And kicked him out. He didn’t like it. But hey to each their own

@Ife I don’t do one night stands which is why I’m considering the ex

Pls don’t x. Not worth at least not for now. After baby why not, ur choice

It won’t be for sex only as you just said you wanted the intimacy and that comes with feelings. You also said you don’t want casual sex, so again it won’t be “sex only”

It honestly depends on why you split.

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