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Painful cramps weeks after miscarriage

I had my miscarriage 2 weeks ago yesterday and haven’t bled since. I didn’t really cramp at all with my loss. 2 weeks later I have such bad cramping😩 anyone else experience this? I’m not ovulating either.

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Miscarriage?? Please reply

I’m about 4/5 weeks does this look like a miscarriage? No pain just bleeding

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first MC

Hi I had my first miscarriage and it's been a week. I have so many questions and Idk where to start as I've just been so sad but I thought I'd start here. It's been a week and I'm still testing positive but I finally finished bleeding. Is this normal?

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D&C or cytotec

Discovered at my 12 week ob check up today that we lost baby 3 weeks prior. Since my body hasn’t recognized the miscarriage yet, I was given the options of cytotec pills or a D&C. I’m torn because the idea of being put under and having surgery scares me, but I don’t know if I could emotionally handle thebleeding so ...

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Anyone else??

I stopped bleeding after a miscarriage on the 4th December and still not had a period. I’ve had some signs like the odd period pain/feeling hormonal but that’s about it. I went to the GP and they didn’t seem to concerned and said let’s ’watch and wait’ for a month until we do anything. Anybody else taken this long. ...

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Blood

I’m 5 weeks and 4 days. I went pee this afternoon and wiped and there was light pink blood. Since then nothing. I have a little cramping but nothing out of the ordinary. Is this a miscarriage? Of course I’ll be calling the dr tomorrow

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Being there for a pregnant friend after a miscarriage

One of my best friends (7+ yrs) just told me she’s pregnant! I just had a miscarriage so I’m having a hard time accepting the news and being excited for her. I feel so selfish for not being excited. I literally burst into tears when she told me. This will be her 5th while we’ve been trying for our second. Any one el...

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Tests after miscarriage

So I had a miscarriage (missed) at 6 and a half weeks. Didn’t start bleeding until 10 weeks. This is my 6th day of bleeding. My tests are still super strong/ extremely dark Is this normal?

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Is this medical negligence?

Two years ago I had a stroke. I was 29 years old at the time and it happened on Christmas Day. My parents rushed to call the ambulance and they said they would be 45 minutes. They then took me in the car which took around 15 minutes. Once I got to the hospital I wasn’t triaged by a nurse until 15 minutes later (I wa...

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TW: Possible Early Miscarriage

I went for a scan today and my OB couldn't find a full sac, only thickening. So I'm either earlier than I thought or it's an early miscarriage. I kind of figured with my tests. So getting HCG taken today and Monday and a scan Thursday. If I end up miscarrying or not, I want to wish you all healthy and easy pregnan...

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Periods

How long did it take for your period to arrive post miscarriage? Mine took over 7 weeks and resulted in retained tissue so had a mva in theatre. I am 2 weeks 3 days since it and I feel like it’s coming but is that too soon?

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Evaporated line or an actual line?

Hey everyone. I’m one day late and I took the test and I’m seeing this line but I’m not sure if it’s evaporated or a faint line? I had miscarriage 4 months ago so I don’t want to get my hopes up yet. Do you think it’s evaporated?

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Coping after 2 losses in a row

So for context I had a miscarriage at 6 weeks in October, fast forward I’m currently having a missed miscarriage. Baby didn’t grow past 6 weeks and 4 days. I didn’t find out until 9 weeks and still showing no signs of bleeding, I would be 10 weeks today:( I’m so so scared that this means if we try again we will be b...

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Just a little overwhelmed 🌈

I had a miscarriage at 12 weeks in December and I’ve not long discovered I’m pregnant again. Im obviously elated to have this beautiful chance again to be a mum, but how did/are you all coping with the worry of another mc? Some days im overjoyed and others I’m still sat in my grief and am full of worry. I pray we ge...

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Miscarriage grief - when did you start feeling yourself?

I'm really struggling physically, emotionally and mentally so painful.

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Hyper fertility

Anyone been diagnosed with hyper fertility? My dr advised I may have this after 3 miscarriages back to back that were conceived first try and looking to get more insights as there is not much info out there x

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How long after miscarriage did you try again?

I miscarried yesterday, I’ve had one before I had our daughter and now we’re trying for our second. I read that you can try the next time you ovulate. I was thinking about trying since your more fertile after a miscarriage. Any thoughts?

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Vvvfl or just seeing things

I think I see a vvvfl I just got done bleeding from a miscarriage last month and I had a peak but levels weren't perfectly high confirmed ovulation and what I thought was a period. But my LH levels seem high now and I'm not sure to ovulate till next week and I am hoping to wait after the miscarriage to have another ...

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Advice needed! How to break my pregnancy news?

My best friend has suffered 3 miscarriages within a year. When I found out I was pregnant, I hoped that she’d fall at a similar time. Last week she told me she was pregnant (2 weeks behind me) and my plan was to tell her that I was pregnant when she reached 12 weeks. Devastatingly, she miscarried this week and now I...

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Period?

I got my period today, 2 days earlier than expected. I'm usually really regular and can almost track it to the second. We had unprotected BD around the time I was expecting to ovulate. My cramps are stronger today than what they usually are. I don't track my ovulation to the point of testing nor have I taken any kin...

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