Community Posts, Tips & Support on Postpartum Care

Hey, I’m around 4 months post op. For the past few months I’ve been symptom free & problem free. Unfortunately this past month. All my problems have come back and feel worse than ever. I’m at wits end and waiting for a review with the consultant. As I say For the first 3 months after surgery I was fine. But the 4th ...

This is just something that happens yesterday it’s not a huge deal but it has me thinking . So I have to wait on the long line for school pick up and drop off . I get there an hr before and I’m still like 7 th on the line ,some days the school allows the gate to be open at 2:55pm and some days not till 3 pm . we...

Anyone Lo picking up personality and fake crying? I literally have a lingering headache from the fake cries, it’s driving me insane. Lol I ignore it then she starts eventually crying fr.

Hi I am 9month postpartum and the hair loss is so much still I dread to even brush my hair day to day. I was wondering if this is normal and if anyone is going through the same and can recommend anything to use like vitamins/products TIA🫶🏽

I feel like there’s no help whatsoever. My partner seems bored of listening to my problems all the time and he never helps he just says he understands and that’s that. I’ve just had my follow up appointment after reaching out to a therapy team and they just said they can’t offer me anything but they think i should g...

I'm leaving the hospital in a few hours and I just keep crying the thought of going home without my baby is tearing me apart 😫. She's doing well but the thought of leaving her is breaking my heart

Please be nice and don’t make me feel worse than I already do. I’m struggling to bond with my baby and feel terrible about it. My labour was long and intense (3 days) ending in an emergency c section and when my daughter was born she wasn’t breathing and had to be resuscitated. I didn’t get to hold her until 15 minu...

I’ve been struggling a lot with my mental health and don’t have anyone to talk to I just don’t know what to do when he’s crying I just want to run away and ignore him but I can’t

So every time my baby has an inconvenience/a cold or any sort of symptom of an illness my mum instantly says that I need to give her Calpol. This absolutely infuriates me. I don’t know why, but it makes me so angry. I feel like it’s an accusation that I’m not looking after her. I’m her mum and I know when I need to ...

I feel bad for not holding my baby long enough recently I’ve just been changing him feeding him and holding him a short time trying to get him back to sleep because I’ve been in a lot of pain it’s hard to stand up to stay awake I feel so drained and in pain it’s been hard holding my baby but tonight he kept crying a...

Hi Mumma’s, I’m on day 8 with a newborn. I’m going to list some thoughts and feelings I’ve been having. I just want to know if it’s something others have felt/is normal? - I have cried every day since being back home. Sometimes for no reason. - I’m anxious she’s not meeting goals I.e. drinking enough, pooing ...

HELP! Is anyone else’s almost 3 year old going through a patch of separation anxiety? She has been going to nursery for 2 years now but over the last 2 month (ish) she’s been crying, latching on to me and not wanting to go to. Her dad and I are also separated and have been for a year or so & she’s the same going...

We get into arguments and he never wants to hear what I have to say and resorts to calling me the b word and calling me fat and ugly and that I’m a turn off .. I literally just had our second baby 3 months ago.. im left feeling sad because everything I go through in a day to day basis and in this relationship I keep...

My mum and I have fallen out 🫠 I'm going through a lot of stress at the moment, in the past 5 weeks my partner has started taking antidepressants, has grappled with dark thoughts and has been diagnosed with PTSD. While all of this has been going on I've been trying to keep our household afloat, doing all the…

I don’t no if it’s just me or other mums feel like this. My LO has recently had sepsis around 4 weeks ago was really poorly in hospital and he has now been back in hospital for a few days because he has RSV. When he was born he was born with a bad chest and is constantly on antibiotics for a chest infection and th...

I feel like such a bad mother I have a 16 month old and a 2 month old and today I fell down the stairs with the both of them. My knee locked up and caused me to live my worst nightmare. I fell forward with my babies and I held on to them as much as I could but ended up on the ground without them. My 16month old lip ...

So I'm feeling so hurt at the moment.. so my husband randomly asked me to send him daily photos of our new born (tomorrow he will be 1 week old) while he is over seas. I logged on to my fb and saw I had a message from his best friend (they've known each other since they were like 5 years old). We are pretty cool but...

I’m 3 months postpartum and my mood swings and emotions are getting worse. My baby has colic and silent reflux so it’s not been an easy journey by any means and I often put it down to exhaustion when I have a meltdown, but over the last couple weeks my moods are getting worse not better. Yet I was so calm in the fir...

My son texted his girlfriend that he wished I was dead. All because I took his phone away for not doing his chores. He doesn't know that I know. I'm hurt and angry and I'm not hiding it well at all. I don't care if my kids don't like me, hate me, can't stand me.... but to wish I was dead. That really hurt.

Genuine answers please? My baby is 2 months old and recently found out my baby's father has a girlfriend I'm unsure how long they have been seeing eachother but I know if I were to try and ask he'd get mad at me and act like I'm crazy. The whole reason I'm concerned is because I don't want my baby having anything to...