Struggling

I’m the mama of three, the littlest is 3 months old so it’s still quite new. Just wondering how everyone else seems to keep it together? I am managing about one shower a week, max. I look like shit. I feel like crying all the time. This afternoon all three kids were crying at me and I was just having movements of ‘wtf’. How am I supposed to deal with this? I am stretched sooooooo thin. How does anyone manage to shower and have clean hair? Or find ANY time for themselves. Or keep themselves feeling like an actual person and not just a mum. Or just generally stay sane?! Tips please.
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Don’t know what to say. I only have one and I am like this. God knows what would have happened if I had three! I can only sympathise. On a more practical level, I suggest getting your friends to babysit for a few hours or get a nanny or home help for a few hours a week.

Message me - see if I can be of any assistance. 🤗 I have 3. I should be technically out of the frazzled period as my littlest is now 21 months. Technically 😅

@Mahbuba Ahh wish I could afford some help! My friend is coming over tomorrow to see us and I’m gonna have to get her to hold fort so I can shower!

You are amazing!!!! Things will get easier. So much respect for you!!! Xx

I have 3 girls the youngest is one going to be 2 soon and 13 and 10 year old so I no how u feel I felt like that for very long time when my baby was a couple of months old all I wanted to do was cry 😢 but it dose past I promise x

Im a mummy to three also !!!! Hang in there tough times pass !!! Xxxx

awh luv, my life isnt together with 2 toddlers but wish we lived closer and I could help u out occupying little ones for an hour or 2 so u could get a little break and just do YOU TIME... hugs, keep going, it will get easier, you are amazing having 3 really fair dos, i got two and sometimes it can get tough... keep going xxxx

@Viktorija Thanks, its hard, i get ZERO time to myself 😔 x

Ahhhh you go girl 💪🏼 stay positive and take little steps i have three children and a 4th one on the way it gets easier hun sending lots if hugs 🤗 xxxxx

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