Community Posts, Tips & Support on Mental Health

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This is hard

I can't stop the sadness and loneliness. They're horrendous. I know it just means I loved my baby. But it's so damn hard.

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New mummy to a baby girl

I have a 5 month old and I feel so lonely during the day when my partner is at work because there's not a lot to do. How do other mums cope?

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IS IT JUST ME!?

Is it just me or is being a full time stay at home mom really hard sometimes especially when you have no friends to talk to. Being a stay at home mom full time has its good moments but for me it also has its depressing moments as well. I really think having a friend I could just text and reach out to would help a lot

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Why 'Wake Up Earlier' Is Bad Self-Care Advice (For Me) - And What I Think About Instead

If one more blog, influencer, or book tells me to wake up 15 minutes earlier for self-care, I'm going to scream. 😤 That advice just doesn’t work for me. And honestly, I don’t think it’s practical for most moms either. Every extra minute of sleep is precious—sleep is self-care! My belief is this: self-care…

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Anyone else in this situation?

I am very happy to spend every day taking care of my baby. I love the quality time and being able to meet his every need. I am grateful to be a SAHM, but sometimes, especially after 10m, I miss working? I miss being around people every day and interacting with guests at work. I miss the creative outlet my work provi...

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I get bad anxieties and have no confidence..

I actually want to run out of ny work because I feel sick and anxious..I don't know how to talk to people..I want to get away from there..I don't even know what job to do because of teh way I feel...really loosing rest of my confidence.

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Im so proud

He finally got the confidence to go down slide on his own

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Stuck on screen time.

Having a hard time balancing what’s in front of me and social media scrolling. I want to be more present but at the same time I’m bored. Phone pick ups are crazy high. How do i quit

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It’s so disheartening to learn you are 0cm dilated🥲

Any tips on staying positive

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Feeling lonely??

Any young mams from newcastle not having enough people to support them? Add my snap we can be friends. We can go on girly days out. Baby shopping. Get our nails done and be there for eachother physically and mentally. Itzme3lle20

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Feeling down

Anyone free for a chat? Little one has just turned a month old and I can’t shake these feelings of sadness all the time. I’m barely sleeping, even when little one sleeps, I find myself just wide awake even though I’m so tired. I’m starting to feel like the worst mum. I don’t want to talk about this to anyone I know ...

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I start my new job tomorrow🎉🎉

I start my new job tomorrow 🎉🎉 I don't have much friends and just wanted to post it here for some encouragement 💝 My partner is emotionally abusive and I'm in the process of leaving him, he has beaten me today because he knows tomorrow I start work so when big changes happen for me he will find a reason to beat me…

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Lost friendships

Anyone else’s friends just seem to have fallen off the face of the earth since having 2 kids. When I had my first we still chatted and saw people regularly. Now my second is nearly 3 months old and someone I thought was my best friend just isn’t bothered about seeing us. when we make plans she cancels at the last mi...

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Am I wrong

Am I wrong for enjoying a night away from my baby? I have friends who would never seperate from their babies despite being really worn out and exhausted. If I get a night to myself I almost feel guilty for enjoying it, but I think I am a better mum if I am in a good headspace myself. I feel like some mums make you f...

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Single mom stress

Anyone else feel like they are not meant to be a mom. Like it's everything you have always wanted, but your not the mom you want to be. I find myself snapping at the littlest things, like my daughter having an pee accident. Or her getting upset when I try to brush her hair. And I just go straight to ahhh. Like I kno...

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I m having panic attacks about my job

I cant do it anymore...I I'm not sure what's wrong with me but this morning my body shut down..I couldn't move.My brain was telling me I need to fo to work, but my body wouldn't move....I can't physically face it ,the people,getting out..I can't do or.

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How to cope without support as a single mum

My little one is currently 7 weeks old and I'm struggling a bit. When I had my older kids who are all teenagers now I had my mum and sisters for support. These days my mum has health issues and my sisters are all working full time so I don't have the support network that I used to have. I'm struggling a bit ATM ...

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Getting out ….

Does anybody else struggle to get out in the mornings at the moment? Feels like such a challenge with little one not letting me change her and being super clingy and just wanting to sit and cuddle with the tv on. I’m just feeling guilty and like a bad Mum that I can’t get us out.

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🙈

Hi, I am sick of feeling so low and depressed, I feel like my family don’t wanna know me or be in my company anymore🙈 we went to a family party on Saturday and when my sister and the kids left I was left sitting alone the whole night as my sister took my wee girl with her, and my son was with his dad ❤️ I just felt…

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I’m a single mother and I’m left with actually nothing. I’m on UC and I get child benefit and I have a healthy start card which I have using for any food and nappies we need.

I’m so depressed. I have a 3yo and 1yo. I have been unemployed for 4 months due to wanting to look after my kids and also I can’t afford childcare. I used to have savings (not a lot but good amount) but that’s all gone. I have been working since I was 16. And now I’m struggling so bad. I feel so ashamed and em...

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