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Collecting colostrum

My first time collecting colostrum. I collected 15 syringes I’m so excited omg!!!

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Second baby

Hello ladies. My LO is 20 months old and I want to go for my 2nd. But my LO is not mobile (he has a condition), so I am worried about miscarrying if I have to pick him up and put him down many times during the day. He is 14kg at the moment and we live on the first floor so there are stairs everyday. This might seem ...

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Successful first time sweep

any success stories with a first sweep? Going to get one tomorrow morning and all I seem to see is posts of unsuccessful ones but was wondering if anyone has had success?

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Being questioned by family for giving LG a dummy

Exactly what it says in title. First time mum and husband’s family are questioning as to why we’ve chosen to give her a dummy and lecturing on how difficult it is to get them off them. I’ve seen a lot of people now choose not to give their babies dummies and now I feel like I’m the only one who’s giving their bab...

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What do you do to get grandparents involved to bond with your baby?

Just looking at more options for grandparents and a 7 month old.

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MATB1 Form

Anyone not got theirs yet??

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Mat leave

Today is my last day of work and I’m actually so excited to start really slowing down into mum zone. I’m a self employed tattoo artist so feel bad on my partner having to put all the graft in now but I feel so tired and ready ! How is everyone getting on? When do others finish?

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Did I come off too strong or did they find someone else?

So, I applied to this job and the recruiter reached out to me on Monday this week to see if I was still interested and when my availability was. I got really excited and replied as soon as I received the email saying that I’m available between my lunch hours and then I emailed again because I forgot to add that I co...

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Only child

I have a little one and she’s still very young but I honestly don’t know if want to have more kids or not Sometimes I feel like I want to give her a sibling but then other times I feel like I only want one kid Has anyone else felt like this? Did you end up having another kid or only have the one?

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FET Transfer buddies

Anybody else scheduled for FET on or around January 16th?

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Egg collection.

Anyone got egg collection coming up, such an exciting time but so nervous, I have mine Friday, have another scan tomorrow to see how they're doing 🥰

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Question

So for instance I was adopted and my kids got taken by CPS and are with hubby's brother. Anyways CPS contacted my adopted mom (who isn't related to me at all) they said she's maternal grandmother but is she though? I'm my own guardian and I didn't sign a release of information can they legally contact her? They told...

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Child benefit

How long from applying did it take for you to receive your child benefit! also if you added them onto an existing claim do you think that made it quicker? Will I probably just wait until next child benefit is due next month to receive anything?

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Colostrum

Has anyone collected colostrum from 37 weeks and gone over due date?

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I see a lot of people saying they don't allow their vaxed kids around unvaxed kids, why is this??

Surely, if your kids are vaxed, they're protected?? Not hating on anyone, just genuinely curious.

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Colostrum Harvesting

Is anyone struggling with collecting colostrum? I am 39 weeks tomorrow and have been trying for just over a week and am getting nothing. Any tips? Anyone had it take time like this?

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Boundaries

Am I going overboard for having these types of boundaries? I’m creating them based off of what happened with my first child. There’s more to the list as well 16 total

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Harvestered

Soon to be a new mummy Very proud moment 36 plus 4 days Just harvestered for the 1st time and managed to fill a whole syringe 💉😀

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Catholic baptism

Do you need god parents for a catholic baptism? We are choosing to get our baby baptised as catholic, I'm catholic and my partner is Protestant, he wouldn't be religious though meanwhile I'm not very religious but have faith. My partners family would be the type they wouldn't step in a Catholic Church so wondering i...

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Childminding and safeguarding against abuse…

I look after my son (18 months) full time and have no help from family or anyone. There is no nursery in our town for under 3s. I am considering a childminder for one afternoon a week, but my concern is safeguarding from abuse. I feel a bit uncomfortable blindly trusting another adult - even if they seem really love...

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