Arguments with Baby Daddy about second baby
So I am 6 weeks pregnant, my boyfriend feels like this baby will destroy our relationship and wants me to get an abortion but I feel like it could make or break our relationship and it may do us some good to welcome our second child. But he feels like I’m blind and don’t understand what he’s trying to do for us. But I’m scared of resenting him for going through with this. It is causing a lot of arguments between us as he has moved out but he has decided that we could have it and just not be together which is not what I want I wanted us to be a family. Not just there because he had no choice. I’m here for an unbiased opinion and point of view.
I believe you both kinda failed. I mean, if he didn't want another kid, this should have been a discussion and what method of birth control was going to be used to prevent pregnancy after your first child. Children are a blessing AND can bring a lot of stress (financially, mentally and emotionally) to any relationship. He may be scared. Either way, if he's said he doesn't want to be with you in a relationship but will be there for the kids, you have your answer. Be prepared to raise north children primarily on your own.