I don’t have to do this anymore as my boy sleeps through but I used to do Nappy then feed, nappy changes always woke him up a bit, then he was awake enough for a good feed, and by the end of the feed he would be sleepy again to go back to bed
Depending on when I last changed him and he isn't saturated or had a poo I leave him until the morning as nappies will absorb urine. When I do have to change him I do it before a feed.
I used to do half a feed, nappy change, then the other half. But as he’s got older (4 and a half months now) that would annoy him and if I left it til the end like you said, he’d be wide awake. So now I do nappy change before feed. He’s often not happy about it but I do it as fast as I can. So far he’s never woken my 5 year old but she has white noise and her door is pulled over. I envy those of you who don’t need to change your LO in the night. I have to change at both feeds otherwise he soaks through 🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Nappy change first but only because my little one has bad reflux and will be sick as soon as he lies down, he’ll feed to sleep and I hold upright on my shoulder for 20 mins before setting him back down.
I feed half or most of it, he usually pushes away to get wind up. I change his nappy then and give the rest of the bottle after.