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My partner has shared legal custody with his child’s mother . The mother relocated and changed her number . My partner hasn’t seen his child for the past 3 months . According to the mother, she’s not comfortable with being about her son and her son is not comfortable being around me . So she will not be sending their son back to the house . My partner is planning to go back to court, however, he’s also hesitant because it just might be a slap on the wrist for the mother . Has anyone been through something similar . FYI - the mother hates my guts because she thinks I ruined their relationship . It has been almost 6 years since she moved to the state where I live and we met and for some reason I’m to blame . The son and I have a good relationship, but as many of you know he’s going to take his mother side and lie to make his mother happy .

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Girl i have literally been in the same exact situation and even i don’t know what to do because my toddler has been asking about for sister for so long and they cant even have a relationship i been in my step daughter over 5 years and now its a problem and i helped this woman when she had absolutely nobody

@Mary It’s jealousy! She’s so threatened by the next woman smh

You are not wrong i mean im the most kind hearted i believe she should have two happy homes have both parents getting along i used to take her everywhere. If she was short of money i helped with everything i got my step daughter during the start of school All her school supplies new clothes and two pairs of new Jordan’s at the start of school and went around saying im the worst person in the world

I’m going through this EXACT same thing 😭 I’ve been with my man for over 5 years and our entire relationship his hcbm has tried her hardest to keep their son away, tells his family to not let their son come with us because “he can’t be around me”, lies to the courts and tells them i try to poison their son and give him bad food lol. So much bs. It’s insane. And even now, we haven’t seen him in 6 months for these reasons. He finally went to mediation in court and got answers and got the changes that were needed. DEFINITELY take it to court! If there are no legitimate safety concerns for the child being around you that she can present to the child that would put the child in immediate danger, she can’t keep him away. Even then she’d have to get a court order for you not to be around and proof why. Hcbm has tried this with me but all they did was say he couldn’t be left alone with me because of her lies of course, then she turns around and asks if he can stay with us during the summer 🤣

@Airianna but I still don’t get why the court order states he can’t be left alone with you if you don’t pose any danger to the child ? That makes no sense . Some of these courts need to really look into the mothers and see how evil and malicious they really are . If my spouse bm tries that I’m suing for perjury and defamation. She has tried that before and had no success whatsoever. The little boy definitely tries to lie in his mother defense and then tries to act like a saint when he’s around me .

Go to court. Especially if they have a court order and a custody agreement. She is interfering and it will not be good for her. Call the police and report a parental kidnapping.

If they have a court order she’s currently in contempt of court. Go to the court for sure.

You’ll need to call the police file a police report get a copy of said police report go to the court file online if your court allows that for an emergency hearing and also file contempt of court. Put everything she is violated when it started how long it’s going. The changing of the number and and relocating without giving the father these new numbers and addresses is already contempt not to mention if there is a custody agreement. 3 months girl talk should’ve been in court 3 months ago the first time she tried this shit

That was my question as well.. but i really couldnt say or do much 🤷🏼‍♀️ and when my bf questioned them, they wouldn’t give him any answers, they just put it in the court order. It’s sad how much they’ve let her get away with honestly. Definitely fight it and tell him to take her to court and hold her in contempt. If he has physical custody, he can also call the police for kidnapping but he’d also have to file for a hearing about that too.