Miscarriage
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I don’t understand that- bc I was in this position I’ve had 6 baby losses, and all of them I was told to come in and be examined, they had to take blood tests off and and feel my stomach and booked in for scans too! But for them to do and say that I’m sorry that’s very unprofessional!!! I’d be putting complaints in if I was you!!! because end of the day your carrying another life inside of you and the last thing you wanna be hearing is there isn’t anything we can do!!! I find that shocking and like I said very very unprofessional!!! I really hope you’re ok tho, and I am here if you’d like to talk feel free to mail me!🌸
Thank you so much girls.. yes I could use a chat and pillow to just cry on...Deep down I feel I would have closure had I been given the opportunity to atleast go in for a check up rather than telling me to stay at home and just pad myself
@Em they wouldn’t even see me in the early pregnancy unit or anything, luckily we managed to get a private scan and it confirmed what we knew. Feel like unless you’ve had recurrent losses or your a certain gestation they don’t do anything and there’s no support 💔
@Holly that’s absolutely shocking behaviour!!!! omg I just can’t believe that!!! I honestly really hope you’re ok!!😞😞 xxxx
Please message me gal!! You’re not alone in this babe!🌸🥰
Hey. I’m sorry you’ve had such a bad experience. Unfortatnely there isn’t much the midwife’s can do but they should at least be seeing you. I had a similar thing 2 years ago and similar situation. Something definetely needs to change. In sooo sorry this has happened to you. Sending love and hugs and if you need a chat I’m here for you as I’m sure everyone here is. It’s not easy but I always think that we are not given more than we can handle. You are a strong woman I am sure and you will get through. Here for you xx
I’m so sorry, it’s the worst feeling in the world. Unfortunately there isn’t much the midwives can do at this point, when I miscarried back in March I didn’t even get to book in for a scan we paid for a private one as we were told to re test in 2 weeks but the not knowing was killing us. The pain never goes away but it gets easier I promise, when you’ve taken time to grieve and heal they do your really fertile after a miscarriage although it took us 5 months to fall pregnant again. Sending love, if you want to chat about it feel free to message me if you want to, it’s the worst club in the world to be apart of 💔