Anybody else not coping with motherhood the way they thought??
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My baby hates pram walks too and I can't leave him with anyone for a break as he's really clingy and breastfed. I would class myself as very strong and I'm often described as incredibly resilient but let me tell you I've had moments where I genuinely feel I can't do motherhood. It's really bloody hard! you're not alone lovely xx
Being a mother is the hardest job in the world but I can promise you that it gets easier ❤️
If you weren't cut out for it, you wouldn't care! I know it feels SO hard to see it now, but this first, TOUGH bit, is such a tiny part of their lives and before you know it, you'll be out the other side. Remember not to bully yourself, everyday take note of the things you did well, as cringe as it sounds it's so important to make sure you're acknowledging your own successes xx
Being a new mum is sold as the most incredible thing… People seem to be too proud to admit how all consuming it is. I remember when I was pregnant everybody told me how magical it is and then when my baby girl arrived and I spoke about the sleep deprivation and worry and not knowing what to do, they all agreed on site. It was one of the hardest times of their lives but now that the kids are grown up they look back with fond memories. I generally think people forget how hard the early days are. The first two or three months for me was like my world had been turned upside down. I love my baby more than I can explain but nothing came easy to me. Now that my baby just turned five months, I can safely say that I know I am a good, loving mother. I know what my baby needs and I’ve really fallen into motherhood well but those first few months were SO hard But I have to admit, there are still days where I feel like I’m failing but they are few and far between now x
@Lisa I’m sure you have but have you tried to sit baby upward in the lay down pram. My baby hates walks about halfway through so I either switch her to a carrier. Or she now sorta sits up, so I prop blankets behind her and sit her up when she’s upset. She seems to like seeeing the world. Just a hopeful possible help but don’t shoot me if not ✨
@Alicia No you're absolutely right. I put him in the pushchair facing outwards and he's much better in that. Still not perfect but he enjoys it for a good 10-15 mins. I take the carrier with me for when he gets fed up
I feel you! I have periods where I really struggle. I was also going to have a year off work but I can't do it so I'm going back after 9 months. I love my little girl so much but it's really hard sometimes. She's nearly 6 months old and I've struggled with 4-6 months as she wants to be on the move and can't so she gets so frustrated and cries/whinges all day. It's killing me.
Hugs, I can relate! There are great days and very hard days and days/moments in between. Special times of pure joy which I try and hold onto when it is very tough. You are doing great I can reassure you, your baby has you and you have your baby, that is wonderful!