i feel so depressed after giving birth at my age

I had my 4th at 41! There’s pros and cons to having babies young, in the middle and later… experience grows as you get a bit older, as does patience I’ve found… under 30 you’ve still got plenty of energy… I actually feel I still do at 43! When he’s 20 you’ll still be young enough to do what you want too x

I had my first at 28 and my regret is I had him too early!! We're not little old ladies at 50. There's 28 years between me and my Dad and he's nowhere near too old to be a brilliant Dad and Grandad! I wouldn't stress about it at all x

This look about age is put upon us with so many wrong things Like disapproving of having kids very young even though its natural and waaay better but despite that In islamic view of course there is support to do everything from younger age but overall we look at age this way from birth till 40 you are mostly building and learning and gaining knowledge, after 40 till death you give this knowledge and help more than learn as you gained experience so dont worry about that and do your best to gain knowledge and be prepared to spread it as we will be asked about that when we die 😘😘

It's what you make of it, love. If you continue to stress this belief that you will be old at 50, then you probably will due to stress and manifestation. If you are truly concerned, do something about it. Take care of your body. Eat healthy. Exercise. My parents are 68 and 70 and still go on road trips, long bike rides, camping trips, and take their grandchildren to playgrounds and museums and go to their sports games. Age is what you make it! I'm 37 and I go to the playground everyday and play basketball and football with my kids and their friends. I just started rollerblading again recently after 20 years of not doing it. I go bike riding and jogging when I can to stay strong and agile. Have fun! F%$# age, it's just a number! 😄

I think you definitely need to get some perspective. 28 is on the younger side for having kids nowadays!

Your age isn’t a problem, it’s your mind set. My parents are 65 and 75. I’m 28 with a 6 year old. My parents are still extremely active and are a huge part of my life the only struggle Is the difference and how we see things but they grew up in Africa where I grew up here. I don’t see them as old at all and I don’t think they see themselves as old either. Ams take a lot of pictures, and instead of looking at the growth of your kid as a sad thing try to see the improvements in them. How you help them grow. One day they’ll be an adult and then you can look back and have food memories of times when you helped them learn new things or saw them do something for the first time.

A lot of us are starting our motherhood journey around this age. I was 30 . Society has us programmed to think having children as teenagers was normal.

Me having my first at 34 😂 28 is such a great age to have kids, don’t worry 😉

I’ll be 40 when my son’s 20 and 50 when my daughter is 20 … not the end of the world.. that’s pretty normal age to be to have young adult children

I had my first a week before 39. My second in my 42nd year. You're alright.

I’m 44 with a 4 year old. I think being an older mother is better because we are more mature. Hugs to you.

Oh my goodness...I'm in big trouble then! Currently pregnant at 43 with my final baby! Help!

You'll still be able to do loads at 50. My mums in her 60s and a lovely nan to all her grandchildren. My nans 91 and despite pneumonia having a good go at trying to take her to the other side weeks before my baby was born. She is still involved a lot in my daughters life.

I feel you. *hugs*

I had my son a few weeks before my 39th birthday. I am 40 now. Age is just a number, don't let it get you down.

thank u so much for the warm messages everyone ive been so emotional and youve all lifted my spirit ❤️

I had my 3rd at 40 husband was 51! With my first 2 born at 18 and 21. Don't beat yourself up, your still really young.

I just had my second and I'm 38. 28 is young, I don't really understand what you're worrying about. My husband is 44.