Christianity and c-section
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You should consider many things. For one, elective C-section are done at 39weeks because it’s the best time to avoid as many complications as possible. It won’t be done before 39wks. Between that time, you could go into labor naturally. Once you have a cesarean, you could still have a VBAC after but that won’t always be possible so consider that you may only deliver by C-section from this point. C-section is major abdominal surgery and they do carry risks. They aren’t risk free just because they are controlled. Please research those. The pain after a C-section is serious so if pain is happening now, you’ll still be in pain for at least another week due to the incision. You won’t be able to do a lot of movement due to the pain. God isn’t necessarily silent. Are you already familiar with His voice? Continue to pray about it and ask God to lead you and convict you to make the right decision. Pain alone shouldn’t be a reason to have major surgery that normally is done for life saviC-sec
So I can greatly understand that impatience to get this baby out! I had an early induction for both of my children, and only partly because of medical concerns. They were concerned enough to allow me to be induced at exactly 38wks, and my labor was fairly quick. 9-12 hrs start to finish with both of them. I had big babies due to our tall genes, so I was really wanting to go early! I would definitely communicate with the ob, your strong desires to end the pregnancy asap. And theyll be able to give you advice on the allowed time frames. I think you are in the UK? I would keep in mind that scheduling either an induction or C-section may be tricky. It's all up to the daily available space of the hospitals. Emergency cases will always push you back.
Ask the Most High for guidance, strength, patience, be still and sit in His presence. He gives us rest, peace, and comfort. Trust Him.
God designed our bodies to birth. He knows the perfect time for your baby to come, He knows you’re capable. The end of pregnancy is so hard, it is a huge test of patience. The journey of pregnancy and birth prepares you for the journey of motherhood. I’m a big believer in letting birth happen naturally, but ultimately you should decide based on what feels the most right in your heart. Pray for Him to ease your mind and your heart, and put all your trust in His plan ❤️
I was born with 2 uterus and thus had to have a c-section, amongst many other issues. C-sections are rough. Doulas are people who help assuage fears when it comes to birth. I wish I had an opportunity to have one but now they are widely available.
I had an induction for medical reasons and by all means avoid additional medical things if it is not necessary. Be patient and go natural if there are no medical complications. C sections is a major surgery. Even with my induction I was trying to make him come sooner. My advice is to do the Miles Circuit, take walks, and drink raspberry tea to prep your cervix. By all means don’t elect to have surgery that will make post partum harder ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I think the Lord is leading you through your husband. I personally think when it comes to medical interventions we should be cautious because they come with risks and can throw in future trials with medical complications. I took the perspective of expectant management which is treating complications as they arise compared to getting medical interventions to prevent hypothetical complications. So if it's diagnosed and a necessary medical intervention I will strongly consider it and pray about it, other than that I think we should lean on faith in God through pregnancy and labor.
As a Christian, I don't think there's a spiritual ramification for having a c-section, but maybe wanting one due to impatience could be. Maybe pray for increased patience and seek the beauty in waiting. If this is your first, remember these are the final days where it's just your and your husband. Plus your body is going through all of the stages it needs to bring the baby here safely. I'm also a Pelvic Floor PT and having a c-section is a major medical surgery even though doctors may not say so. They cut through all of the layers of your abdominal wall including your core muscles. It can put you at an increased risk for infection, delay recovery, increase risk for postpartum complications like leakage and pain. Plus if you're already having pain from pregnancy (possibly due to instability/weakness), it may not subside as quickly with a c-section. If you're having pain now, I'd suggest seeing a pelvic floor PT. If you want to talk more about what you're dealing with now send me a dm!
I am a first time mum , I remember how impatient I was the last weeks , I had contractions since 35w and it was so hard to keep going with mental strength. I was fisically tired and in pain . Remember god will never give you more than what you can tollerate , maybe this is just a way to let you process feelings . He know what is good for all of us , he will take care of you and your baby whatever will be the way to give birth . ❤️
I've had two csections, but mine were for medical reasons. While scheduling an elective csection takes away the element of surprise about when baby will come, there are some things to consider. Personally, I would've loved to have mine naturally. It just wasn't an option. If you have questions about how the procedure goes or the recovery, feel free to message me! I'll answer all of them yo the best of my knowledge.