Stressed

Don’t listen to what they have to say. It’s your baby and your decision!

What do they mean “what you should do after the baby is born”? Lol like feed it and change its diaper? Or are they saying like you working versus being a SAHM(stay at home mom)? Either way they don’t get a say so it doesn’t really matter what they think 😂 My husband’s side is very anti-SAHM. His mom, grandma, aunt, all of them believe women HAVE to work. It is SO frustrating listening to their opinions. I’m at the point now where it’s not up for debate, it’s no longer a discussion I’m going to be having. My response will be “I’m so glad that’s what worked for your family!” with a smile 😊

@Abby my husband and I don't live close to our families, both of our families live in Ohio while we live in South Dakota. Both his family and mine are trying to get me to fly back to Ohio after the baby is born bc he will be on a deployment all of next year and they don't think I have what it takes to stay home with the baby by myself