@Lindsey I’m sure you were enough! Relationships are hard work because it's two flawed people getting together and trying to create something beautiful. It takes work, vulnerability, commitment and dying to self (compromise/putting the other person first in non-abusive situations). Unfortunately, not all people are honest about whether they can weather the storms. I hope you find true happiness and accept that you are enough even with your flaw 🌻
Thank you 😭
I have absolutely felt that way, especially while pregnant with my daughter. My husband and I separated when she was 10 months old and I've had a lot of processing to do. When I get stuck I try to reframe my thoughts. I didn't deserve the treatment He gave me becomes now I know what I want and deserve and I won't settle for less again. We can't do anything to change what has happened, but we can change our actions so it doesn't happen again ❤️ Hold on mama, better things to come.
All the time. The last time I felt like someone truly loved me and would do anything for me was when I was 15 (almost 30 years ago 🤣).
I’m right there with you. I question if he ever loved me and I feel my vision of having a family with him was ripped from me. I just wanted to feel loved :(
On the same boat. My partner recently ended things with me and although I was well aware of our problems and areas of growth, I kinda expected this reciprocate energy of “we are a team”. Now I’m pregnant with his first child, and he has doubts that it’s his.I have a daughter from my first marriage and she has been taken from her safe space because I left our home to give him space. I just feel like so many changes are happening at once and I’m drowning
Yes, I feel like I was never enough, and I just want to be loved flaws and all.